Thanks for all your responses, but several issues stand out:
The only species experiencing die offs are the H. majuscula. We have the opposite problem with humidity here - I have to struggle to keep it high enough for species from the humid tropics. I keep everything clean. I'm not a complete newbie. Orchids doing fine, as are 15 other species. The larvae are eating all organically grown food waste and some grain, bins are outside. The "infection" has a very rapid onset, one day the animal is feeding, the next it's dead with a blackened abdomen. No time to get them honey or anything else. Other species such as dessicata that got the flies occasionally when they just started to produce are fine. Might be a pathogen that only affects the H. majuscula, or it has become so hot here that a pathogen is being passed on now through the BSFs all the way from larvae to adult, which i find a bit hard to believe, but it's possible.
Going to have to stop being so lazy and do some smears of gut contents on the dead mantises, and stop feeding BSFs for a while. Again, a pity because I've never had feeder colonies that crank so hard.
Also strange that BSFs, which have an all vegetable diet around here, would carry something nasty when the bluebottles and houseflies i get are grown basically on the nastiest stuff imaginable - dead fish, animal products of unknown origin.
Another thing that's odd is that I find that if i handle the adult BSFs for a while, I get a slight allergic reaction to them. a bit of dermatitis, numbness around the lips, etc. That makes me worry that there's something in the bins that is really not good, or that adult BSFs carry some strange proteins around with them...but I've never read anything about this.
I NEVER feed crickets. Learned that lesson a long time ago.
Anyway, will keep you folks updated.