thank you both, youre very welcome! gongs dont seem to be aggressive at all from what ive experienced, i have had rare occurences of cannibalism but those were one-offs (well, two-offs) i think, one of the more doicle species. i cant tell whether they enjoy perching/sitting/climbing on my hand but they do seem to much prefer being upside down i think, if i open the container lid and flip it round so she is right side up she will clamber on anything close by and climb up everything she can get a hold on to get higher and higher. so i dont think its a case of her enjoying it, as much as her wanting to get as high as possible, though i may be wrong. theyre a really great species to keep in my opinion, best if you keep more than one together. but yeh i like them.