Ok I know how to breed mantids and all that but what does one do when a male goes halfway I mean he is on the female has the grasping down but has not tried to connect yet and he looks confident but he has not many attempts to make a connection and maybe the female might not be ready but the male is but since this is supposed to be a easy species to breed this is my first attempt at this species and also does it mean the male needs a little more time alone with the female to feel confident enough to make the link!