What exactly should i look for with my female wide arm aside from when they approach her she is very calm for the most part and it takes a lot for her to grab at them in anger or what ever even after being wounded during attempted mounting? Still, leary about mating them with her for the wounding but I thought of it this way,minus humans screwing around with mating habits when in the wild it's all them so what ever happens happens. But, I just don't want to lose her to the over zealous little horny toad. At least I can say the males are ready for action they just need to calm down a bit with the grabbing of wrong parts and such..