Hi everyone - what a great online resource! We found a teeny mantis on our wine glass a couple days ago, and couldn't bear to put him/her outside to die (Illinois - brr!). So I am now the caretaker of Merlot, the newest member of our family. Have learned tons about the habitat, and am feeding fruit flies and spritzing water daily. Ate 6 yesterday and put 6 more flies in today. Merlot is about 3/4 of an inch long. I know nothing about the stages (I really know nothing at all!), and am hoping I am doing the right things? He/she is kindof black...is that a bad sign?!