has anyone else besides me notice some males can survive 4-5 or more matings and then there is the ones that only seem to survive 1-2 matings and die off and no not because of the females eating them.Is this more to happen in smaller species where the males seem to take less matings before they die then the larger species as I had a miomantis biotata male and he mated twice with a few failures in between but after the second mating his eyes kind of turned a reddish and then the male became somewhat catatonic and later on in the day he fell on the bottom of enclosure and had to put him out of his misery and just wondered if smaller species can only handle fewer matings then larger ones!