Thanks Idaho, that was all very informative! Unfortunately we just noticed he has a leg missing, we can't recall if that happened when we found him or after we transfered him to the temp housing. Will this hinder mating? Originally when we caught the newer female we put them in the same cage once we had fed her a couple moths. They didnt go near each other for a while and when they did she grabbed him and required rescuing (unsure if he lost his leg during this). She's definitely more active than the other female, we could try putting him in the calm one's cage if he's fit enough for mating. If not, or if the other one puts him in a death lock as well, what do you recommend doing?
Will post some pics tomorrow when there's light out, the females are really pretty <3! I'm located in Los Angeles, CA.
Is this a way to begin taming a mantis? (We dont handle them much- afraid they may hop/fly away into a number of dangers (we have a large room with a clutter of desks and furniture, it'd be very easy for them to get lost and/or feasted upon by our cat.)
As for the missing leg, 5 out of 6 will get the job done for mating. Target sells a 3 pack of 6 x 6 x 8 tupperware containers for a $1.97. No need for sticks or anything inside the housing as the male will more than likely hang from the lid all day. Poke a couple of holes on the sides, not so much for air, but ventilation which is always a good thing. Make sure to keep the holes small enough so that any feeders (flies & moths) can't escape. You want a keep a male fed, give it flies or moths, just don't be surprised if they skip a day of feeding. Males do need water daily just spray a little on the side of his housing and he'll be fine.
Although there are some species of Mantids that can live communally most do not and will eat each other. Such is the case with any wild species from SoCal, so keep them separated.
Mating is easy, since you say you have a lot of boxes (paper box 11 x 17) they will work fine for mating. Simply place something (candle holder/ plastic cup) in the middle so the female can climb on it for mating.
If you just stick the male in with the female in a confined housing, she will most likely eat him and you won't have a chance to mate the 2nd female. I guess there is no guarantee the male will survive but I have mated mantids 8 times and never lost a male.
Stick the box in the bathtub or bathroom in case the males flies off he won't go far.
I agree with Phil, the more you handle your mantids increases the chances of doing them harm. It could be a chemical transfer from surfaces or prying them off surfaces as their feet act like hooks. There have to be known ground rules to handling them safely.
That being said, I handle mine daily along with my kids. As long as your hands are clean, free of any soap and the cat is put away, take a female out and watch TV together. As her belly starts to fatten up, go outside and let her purch on your hand and feel the breeze blow her antennae back.
All you really need to do is make sure that you never try and pry her off anything. It might take awhile for her to release a grip on something, but that's just a patience factor. Taming might not be the best descriptor for mantids, but establishing a trust factor and learning to become comfortable handling them is the closest to "taming" that anybody can get.
Now, if I had a lot of money invested in an exotic breed of mantid, I too would probably avoid handling as much as possible. But for wild mantids, let's be real, you are giving them a custom housing, food, water, and protection from elements that increase their mortality ten-fold. So handling them, for me personally is an acceptable practice and if they die due to it...oh well!
So far it's never been an issue and my kids love holding them while doing their homework or watching TV.
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