I have two giant asian mantids, one male and one female. The female is A month old and the male is a month and a week or 2 old. I tried many methods of mating them but none work. I tried Rick's method and I tried placing the male on the females back. The female doesn't usually mind the male but the male sees the female points his antenna towards her, but right when I think he's going to jump on his back, he loses his attention on her or he freaks out and jumps backward. I even left them alone for a few hours and they didn't move at all.