Ok so here is the story of how i lost my grandparents
so when I was in 7th grade, we noticed my grandpa displaying signs of alzhiemer's disease
at the beginning of my 8th grade year, my grandmother got cancer and she died almost 10 months ago (it will be 10 months in a week), and my mom,my sister and i took care of my grandfather i spent much of my time there and we ate dinner there and took care of him, and it got tough as his health declined and we started to argue more and have a hard time getting along (my mom, sister and i)
despite this we still stuck together and were a good family, but thursday night i had an odd dream
the background to it is, abt 5 years ago he was in the hospital sick and his tomato seedlings died, so i started new ones for him, but i started too many and planted some in his compost pile, and they got huge and every year since then we put tomato plants in the pile
but thursday night i had a dream where a godess of wisdom visited me telling me to plant his tomatoes in my garden, implying he died since if he did we'd have to sell the house and blah blah, obviously you dont plant stuff at a vacant house
friday he had trouble breathing and saturday afternoon he was admitted into the hospital
yesterday i visited and we went home at about 8
after getting out of the shower, we got a call and rushed back to the hospital (which is within walking distance but we drove), and when we got there he was gone
now there r many more details but they r personal and i'm not comfortable sharing them
so when I was in 7th grade, we noticed my grandpa displaying signs of alzhiemer's disease
at the beginning of my 8th grade year, my grandmother got cancer and she died almost 10 months ago (it will be 10 months in a week), and my mom,my sister and i took care of my grandfather i spent much of my time there and we ate dinner there and took care of him, and it got tough as his health declined and we started to argue more and have a hard time getting along (my mom, sister and i)
despite this we still stuck together and were a good family, but thursday night i had an odd dream
the background to it is, abt 5 years ago he was in the hospital sick and his tomato seedlings died, so i started new ones for him, but i started too many and planted some in his compost pile, and they got huge and every year since then we put tomato plants in the pile
but thursday night i had a dream where a godess of wisdom visited me telling me to plant his tomatoes in my garden, implying he died since if he did we'd have to sell the house and blah blah, obviously you dont plant stuff at a vacant house
friday he had trouble breathing and saturday afternoon he was admitted into the hospital
yesterday i visited and we went home at about 8
after getting out of the shower, we got a call and rushed back to the hospital (which is within walking distance but we drove), and when we got there he was gone
now there r many more details but they r personal and i'm not comfortable sharing them
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