I'm sorry for your loss. I also would like to add that although this may not be the case here, I think impactions can also be caused by feeding on insects that have hard exoskeletons, or are none flying insects for example. Some mantids fair best on flying insects, for others it has no effect. I am thinking there could be a correlation between consuming "unsuitable prey items" and their digestive system of some mantids has a hard time handling the breaking down, potentially leading to impactions. I am completely uncertain but it is something to consider. Anyways, sorry to derail the thread a tad bit, we aren't talking about the digestive system here, rather the reproductive so I'll stop
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