This is more of what pisses me off, hearing Mom in Law say this to Hubby:
"Really, who does she think she is? Does she really think she's cute, having all those damn bugs? Who the heck keeps praying mantises? They're creepy, they're ugly, they're stupid. And those rats too! They smell like s**t, and she DOTES on them like they're her kids. I know why, it's because she can't have kids. She can't have kids, unlike me, so she has animals. Sucks to be her." And of course, my dear ol' Hubby, being nonconfrontational, doesn't stand up for me.