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Great. Thanks. All is fine now.
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Tier: You are well known as a valued contributor to this forum, and I don't think that anyone takes what you have to say lightly. It must be an extreme source of frustration to you and other European members to pass on information about a well known and discredited cheat and have it blithely ignored by the people whom you are trying to help. This short post relates only to that frustration.
In the past, I have conducted business with people whom I had every reason to believe would cheat me if they thought that they could get away with it. Now I am a retired, harmless old guy, but old habits die hard; I use dump drives and hardware encryption and take the hit on speed and price even though such precautions re no longer necessary. I also know a lot of inexpensive ways (and a few expensive ones) for checking out prospective business partners.
Most mantis deals are so small, less than a few hundred dollars and sometimes a lot less than that, that even if the deal sounds too good to be true, it might be worth throwing away a few bucks on the off chance -- Rick did this recently and lost out, and it sounded like a good calculated risk to me -- but I would much rather have someone else take the risks if possible.
Frey came to this forum with insufficient evidence to damn her in my eyes, but enough to to make me avoid her when there are many trustworthy European dealers out there already. After a friend had recommended her privately and I found that she was offering a rare species at a good price, I took a calculated risk. Despite confident predictions to the contrary by other members, the ooth hatched and was of the species claimed. I was also impressed by the fact that Frey gave me a guarantee that the ooth would hatch. I see that she has now done so in her latest "for sale" post. This goes way beyond the requirements of this forum.
I'm not an amateur detective and had no reason to make any further checks, though I did note that she is using the same PayPal addy now that she was using when I first dealt with her, always a good sign.
I should add that I, too was a little taken aback to discover that two brand new members had written almost identical praise of a transaction with her, and more out of habit than anything else, checked out Laknap. I found that he joined two other forums to which I belong, one mantis related, one not, that he does indeed have an Italian Email, and that he was able to correctly name three mantids from his area of Italy. He really doesn't sound like a Frey clone to me, and I deliberately avoided checking the second member for my own mental health.
I have placed a recent and what I consider to be an excellent order with Frey. I shall report the outcome in the feedback thread. I think that the Frey with whom I deal is the 22 yr old woman she claims to be, but if she turns out to be an elderly Polish gentleman with huge, hairy hands and conducts business satisfactorily with me, I don't care.
It is hard to make a fortune or even a living scamming folks on mantis sales, for the reason that I gave above. but there is an ancient scam that could be used here. A scammer may engineer several profitable transactions for the mark and then write saying. "I have always enjoyed doing business with you, and so I am happy to offer you an opportunity to get some mantids at a great price and to possibly make a little profit yourself. I recently got a small order (20 ooths from a [pick yr country] )containing ooths of [pick your species]. To my surprise, all but three hatched! He now insists that I make a bulk order, for $1000. A friend and I can raise $650, and if you can make up the balance ($350) I should be delighted to cut you in on the deal." At least, that's how I would pull the scam! If I got such an offer from any dealer, I would post it here.
So no, many of us in the States are not naive dupes; we have business acumen that rivals that of our European fellow members, but I for one am impressed by the way in which you cooperated to find a cheat and appreciate your passing on the information to us. Meanwhile, though, I shall continue to deal with Frey so long as she continues to keep up with her end of our bargains, and that applies to any dealer with whom I do business.