Oh yeah, I didn't need that exorcist reference. That's creepy. Phil's quote is funny, as usual. I'm sure there are an average of 3 or so spider egg cases in each of our bedrooms (though not easy to find in strips of molding or beds pulled away from the wall every year or two). Worse things in spiders lurk our closets, or so my children tell me (it's by no coincidence that they may be uniquely correct, in the case of my home
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I've made progress in the last stronghold of personal pet bug fear in the last few years--giant centipedes. I have no desire to hold one, but at least I'm not afraid to lift the lids on the containers. More than any tarantulas, their speed and the size of their fangs are very intimidating. Pterinochilus and Haplopelma tarantulas, especially H. schmidti, also demand my respect though my reaction to their aggression is a far cry from phobic. I once had an H. schmidti that was so pissy it would flop on its back, rear its fangs, kill its food but not eat it. It eventually starved to death. It's an unlikely story, but completely true.
I too am a magnet for mosquitoes and fleas. People with dogs or especially cats often don't consider themselves to have a flea problem in their home until I visit. I have a slightly higher than normal allergy to the bites. They swell up larger on me and drive me nuts, seeming almost to be conneccted so that if I scratch one they all begin to itch in unison. I know everybody feels this way to an extent, but I'm the guy people like to stand next to when the swarm comes because I seem to have a target on my back that draws them directly in.
The best way to overcome a fear of any bug is to create a beautiful home for it and keep it as a pet for a year or so. It's very difficult to maintain hatred or fear when you are constantly exposed to something living and responsible for its care. We're a biased group, but I suspect there is no mantis hobbyist that would not come to enjoy having any of the aforementioned examples as a pet, in time. Fear would melt away. As many of you have probably experienced, much of society is either afraid of mantises or wants nothing to do with them, even knowing how much we enjoy them.