Well I put the lovers together again yesterday, fed her really good prior and again after about six hours into it. When I checked on them I could tell that the male was curling his abdomen around to meet hers, but when I tried to get a good look he would straighten it out. So I gave them their privacy......They stayed together all night, and till nearly noon the next day, when he politely hopped off and went about his merry way. I assume that means he finished his job and was successful, but since I didn't really see it with my own eyes how do I know for sure? Will he hop on her again given the opportunity in the future, or is he done with her?