Hi Scott,
To answer your questions that were directed to me and possibly to add a healthy dose of perspective to counteract that self-proclaimed sanity issue you referred to (because I really do want you to be happy here):
My personal working definition of room temperature was described in my last post. I'm not interested in Webster's definition, so don't bother debating me over what is common sense. (Advanced apologies to any Eskimos living in igloos that are surfing the forum at this time for care tips on their H. membrancea.) [this is just Me, lightening up.]
Regarding the problems that you read about on this forum, remember that "problems" are the reasons there ARE posts on this forum. People don't write posts about the 200 mantises they raised successfully. They write posts discussing why 1 in 200 went wrong. Make sense? (and Katnapper was trying to prevent that 1 and she seems to have had her question answered to her satisfaction at this point and that IS the point.)
Regarding your usage of the term "much better" in the context of H. membranacea, it depends on what your goals with the pet are. I already touched on this in my post too, but there are two perspectives here:
1. pet (what's best for the people that keep them= enjoying our pets)
2. mantis (what is ethically/biologically best for the mantis= mimicking its natural conditions which is perfectly impossible)
In the ten+ years I've been answering people's questions about pet mantises, many of them prefer to keep them cooler because it will extend the life of their pets. Remember, 99% of us are here for the pet aspects of the mantis hobby. I think you often fail to see the big picture in terms of what the average person is interested in learning about here. If you are here for yourself and have deep questions of your own, then I can understand the source of your frustrations. This may not be the forum for you, no matter how hard you try to make it that. If you are an animal rights activist, I can understand the source of your concern for "precise" conditions (though they don't exist in nature or in captivity...in Mantis Heaven, maybe.). But your constant hair-splitting is totally taking away the fun in helping Katnapper and the average, new hobbyist out, here...at least for me.
This stuff is fun and we love our pets! Very few of us are interested in stressing over fractions of degrees or humidity and it is misleading to cause people unnecessary worry. There is science and there is hobby. This forum is mainly hobby-oriented. I do enjoy reading some of the scientific points that you and others bring to the table, but, by and large, most of us are just here to learn how to take care of our pets with the least bit of difficulty. This is the recipe for longterm enjoyment...convenience is the key to success...and, of course, sharing the hobby with others in a spirit of fascination and apprecation for mantises (and the people who keep them) enhances the experience! Taking care of mantises really isn't a science, nor do most of us want it to be. It's pretty simple stuff with a little bit of knowledge, confidence and practice.
You just said you have not raised H. membranacea and my experience seems to be in conflict with what you haven't experienced.
I understand the source of your frustration in the last section of your post to me, but I think the source of your frustration is the result of your goals here vs. the average member's goals here. When you publicly display your frustrations, you should expect a public discussion of them.
Katnapper, if you did still have any questions about any of this, please feel safe to ask. This is YOUR topic!